How to Keep Bar Exam Prep Under Wraps
Are you keeping the fact that you’re taking the bar exam a secret because others sabotage you or you’re too afraid of others knowing you’ve failed the bar exam again?
Ugh...so not funny
Sometimes bar exam pressure builds not just from the exam itself, but from the expectations of others.
Maybe you've faced negativity or "helpful" (but ultimately unhelpful) advice in the past. Perhaps the fear of judgment around a previous fail is keeping you quiet this time around.
Whatever the reason, you've made a strategic decision to keep your bar exam prep under wraps. This can be challenging, but here are some tips to navigate your stealthy study journey and emerge victorious:
1. Embrace the Information Blockade:
Limit conversations about your schedule or workload. Instead of detailed explanations, try "I'm swamped with some deadlines" or "Just keeping busy with some professional development."
2. Master Your Time:
Maximize your study time by dedicating early mornings or late nights to bar prep. You could also use your lunch and commute time for quick review sessions or listening to bar prep notes. Make the most of your weekends by setting aside dedicated study blocks.
3. The Power of "Maybe Later":
Friends or family suggesting social outings? Embrace the "maybe later" approach. You can explain you have a "tight schedule" or "need to check my calendar."
4. Find Your Support System in the Shadows:
Just because you're keeping your studies private doesn't mean you have to go solo. Seek online support groups or forums for bar exam takers. These communities can offer camaraderie and valuable advice without the spotlight. Avoid the Dougie Downers in these communities though.
5. Celebrate Silently (For Now!):
You aced a practice test or finally conquered a challenging topic? Celebrate privately! Treat yourself to a quiet night in or indulge in that book you've been eyeing. Public displays of bar exam-related joy can wait until after you pass.
6. Reframe Negative Self-Talk:
You may be worried about judgment for failing the bar exam previously. Challenge those thoughts! Remember, this retake is a testament to your perseverance and dedication.
Remember, you are not alone. Many people choose to keep their bar prep private. By focusing on your studies, utilizing these tips, and believing in yourself, you can achieve bar exam success on your own terms. After all, the ultimate validation will come not from others, but from that coveted passing score!